You can't choose the family you're born into, but you can choose those who become family. There's a movement on social media to help families find surrogate grandparents.
For families living far apart, or when parents have died, providing that grandparent relationship for kids isn't always possible, but now the Facebook group "Surrogate Grandparents USA" is providing a solution for people like Rebecca Tobias.
And now at 53, Tobias is doing something many may consider eccentric. She says her daughter has decided against having children, but Tobias is still determined to be a grandma.
And then it clicked. A few weeks ago she stumbled across the Facebook group.